You do not have to wait

Support is appropriate before things feel “bad enough”

Eating disorders and disordered eating can be difficult to recognize, especially when part of you feels in control or believes your experience is not serious enough to deserve help.

If thoughts about food, weight, exercise, or your body are interfering with daily life, relationships, school, work, health, or emotional wellbeing, it is okay to reach out now.

Early support matters. You deserve help before things become more painful, disruptive, or medically concerning.

Signs it may be time to reach out

Notice how much space food and body concerns are taking up

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You do not need to experience every sign on this page. Even one pattern can be worth discussing when it is causing distress, affecting your health, or making daily life feel smaller.

01

Food feels stressful, rigid, or hard to navigate

  • Restricting or limiting food with the goal of changing your weight or body
  • Skipping meals, avoiding certain foods, or following strict food rules
  • Feeling anxious, guilty, ashamed, or distressed after eating
  • Spending a lot of time thinking about food, calories, ingredients, eating, or “making up for” what you ate
  • Feeling like food decisions are taking up more space in your life than they used to
02

Body image thoughts are taking over

  • Thinking constantly about how you “should” look or what you “should” weigh
  • Feeling unable to set aside distressing thoughts about your body
  • Having rigid expectations for your weight, clothing size, or appearance
  • Feeling intense fear, anxiety, or depression about weight gain or body changes
  • Hearing others express concern about your body or health while feeling unable to see what they see
03

Eating feels out of control

  • Eating large amounts of food while feeling unable to stop
  • Feeling disconnected, ashamed, or distressed during or after eating
  • Experiencing cycles of restriction, bingeing, purging, or repeatedly “starting over”
  • Feeling like eating patterns are affecting your mood, relationships, school, work, or daily life
04

Movement feels driven by fear or guilt

  • Exercising to compensate for food eaten
  • Feeling anxious, guilty, or distressed when you cannot exercise
  • Continuing to exercise while injured, exhausted, sick, or undernourished
  • Feeling like movement is something you have to do rather than something that supports your wellbeing

You do not need a diagnosis, a certain body size, or a medical crisis to deserve care

Eating disorders and disordered eating can affect people of every age, gender, race, body size, ability, and background. Concern and distress are enough reasons to begin a conversation with an informed provider.

Signs to get medical help right away

Some symptoms can become medically serious quickly

Seek urgent medical support, contact a medical provider, call a crisis line, or go to an emergency department when you are experiencing serious physical symptoms or immediate safety concerns.

Fainting, significant dizziness, weakness, or feeling like you may pass out
Chest pain, heart palpitations, irregular heartbeat, or shortness of breath
Frequent vomiting, vomiting blood, or severe dehydration
Using laxatives, diuretics, diet pills, or other substances to compensate for eating
Exercising despite feeling medically unwell, faint, injured, or exhausted
Going long periods without eating or severely limiting food or fluids
Feeling frequently cold, noticing new fine or downy hair growth, or other possible signs of undernourishment
Rapid or significant weight loss
Feeling suicidal, hopeless, unsafe, or out of control

If you are in immediate danger or may hurt yourself

Call 988 in the United States, call 911, or go to the nearest emergency department.

Taking the next step

You do not need to know exactly what kind of help you need

An eating disorder-informed therapist, dietitian, medical provider, or treatment program can help you understand what is happening and what level of support may be appropriate.

Reaching out does not commit you to a particular treatment path. It can simply be a first conversation about your concerns, health, and available options.